GROUNDS FOR DIVORCE

1. One Year Separation
If you have been living separate from your spouse for more than one year, the court will grant you a divorce. You do not, however, have to wait until your year of separation is up before filing for your divorce. You can file for your divorce anytime after you have separated and then when the year of separation is up, the divorce will be granted at that time.

If you are still living at the same address as your spouse and not able to move out for financial reasons, under certain circumstances you may still be able to file for your divorce or have your divorce granted. To do this though, you must not be "living as husband and wife" with your spouse, and certain criteria are used to determine whether you are considered to be living as husband and wife or not. We can determine whether you qualify under that exception. When a application for divorce is filed on the basis of "one year separation", no other ground or reason for the divorce is required. This is what is commonly known (mostly in the American media) as a "no-fault divorce". The reasons that you and your spouse separated are not required to be given to the court. Just the fact that you have separated from each other is sufficient. Your evidence of having lived separate from the time you claim you have, is simply your sworn affidavit, which we prepare for you and which you will swear at our office.

2. Adultery
If you have not been living separate from your spouse for over one year and you do not want to wait for the year to be up to qualify for a divorce under that ground, you may be able to obtain your divorce much sooner by filing for your divorce on the grounds of adultery.

Adultery occurs when either the husband or the wife has sexual intercourse with another person while still legally married to his or her spouse. The adultery need not take place when the spouses are still living together to qualify as "adultery". Even after the spouses have separated, if one party has sexual intercourse with someone else, it is still adultery.

However, if the adultery had taken place during the time the spouses were living together, and the other spouse, even though he or she knew that the adultery had occurred, continued to live as husband and wife with the (adulterous) spouse for a period of three months or more, then that act of adultery can not be used as a ground for divorce, because under the present law, the injured party is said to have "condoned" the adultery by continuing to live in a husband and wife relationship with the adulterer. In order for the adultery to be used as a ground for divorce, the injured party must separate from the adulterer within three months of having learned of the adultery.

If your spouse is willing to admit to the adultery by swearing an affidavit to that affect (which we would prepare)either at our office or before a clerk at a counter in a government office, then this is sufficient evidence of the adultery. And your divorce will still be considered a "simple" divorce for the purposes of our fees. However, for us to be able to obtain your divorce under this ground, your spouse must be willing to give us the date and address at which the said adultery occurred. We then prepare an affidavit to that effect and your spouse must be willing to come in and swear it at our office (or we can make arrangements for your spouse to swear it at a more convenient location, if need be). Please note: we do not need the name of the person (surprisingly to most, this is the present law) your spouse committed adultery with. But we will need to know how you found out about the adultery.

Your spouse can be assured that adultery is not against the law. There is no criminal sanction against adultery. It is simply a ground for divorce. We must, however, in order to proceed under this ground, be able to determine that there was no collusion on your part, in relation to the adultery.

3. Cruelty
If you wish to obtain a divorce from your spouse on the basis of cruelty, this will not be considered a "simple" divorce for the purpose of our fees. In order to obtain a divorce on the basis of this gr`und, the cruelty complained of must be "of a grave and weighty nature such as to render cohabitation intolerable", to use the wording of the statute.

The law was originally written many, many decades in the past and has not changed in recent years. It is widely viewed in the legal community as being archaic for the reason that the level of cruelty and the effect on the injured party that the ground requires, is of such severity that it leaves many legitimate victims of cruelty out.

What may be considered cruelty by today's standards may not be severe enough to meet the standards of this old and archaic section of the act. In many cases it is better to file for divorce under the grounds of one-year-separation and wait until the one year is up to have the divorce granted. If you do wish to proceed on the basis of cruelty, please click below.

ANNULMENTS

A legal "annulment" is an entirely different entity from a "divorce". It is quite rare for an individual to have valid grounds for a legal annulment. The grounds for annulment are the following:

(a) it has been found that one of the parties to the marriage is under the age of 16 years; or
(b) it has been found that the parties to the marriage are more closely related than first cousin; or
(c) that the marriage has not been consummated (sexually) and still can not be consummated (sexually) by reason of a medical inability on the part of the husband or wife to perform the act of sexual intercourse.

An annulment proceeding does not enjoy the same simplified, streamlined and expedited court procedure as the government has laid out for (the more common) divorce, and instead proceeds on the basis of the more cumbersome, costly and lengthy - formal rules of civil procedure. Even if one were to have grounds for annulment, one might wish to obtain a divorce instead to avoid the far greater cost and time required, not to mention having to present the required evidence in an oral hearing before a judge.

A religious annulment is something that is not dealt with in civil courts in Ontario; that is something that is between you and your religious institution. Some religions require that a religious annulment be obtained from them before they will allow you to re-marry before an authorized religious figure of that faith. However, many if not most religious institutions require that a civil dissolution of the marriage be done before you commence the religious annulment proceedings with them. But this is something you must consult with your own religious authorities for.